Saturday, August 13, 2022

Trying to solve her insomnia (The Timeline) - from July (still drafting. post after mid aug?)

Lil' one complained that she couldn't sleep sometime in July. I need to quickly help her with this, her first part of the finals are in September and she was sitting for Prelims in July/August. No time to lose. 

End of July

1. I gave her the flu medication first while I look for solutions. 

2. The next day dropped by Guardian and got her this Blackmore Sleep Sound Formula which has Valerian, lemon balm and magnesium as its ingredients. 

Gave her 2 that night and she slept better but next night tried 1 and was sleepless. All the while I was also diffusing essential oil. I wished I had read up more on valerian root, it wasn't easy holding onto the phone and checking on stuffs, hanging around the shelf so long that maybe staffs think I'm trying to steal something. So back at home I read up more on valerian root and another study says it's not good for children.  

I'd be more comfortable diffusing it when I realise there is Valerian essential oil. This is only available in YL USA.         

This is a good read of the differences between the 2

When one is comfortable, not in the shopping aisle, it's really important to read up loads of information on both sides as reports or clinical results can be quite biased. So another report I read that valerian root for anxiety can be risky. Reading up on the side effects is equally important too so I made sure I read up for all the "pills" I came across. Seems like valerian root has some side effects which might cause her more confusion in her academics instead? Haha! I gave her for 2 days and decided not to give her anymore; she has a small body frame, later she kena jialat jialat how? 


3. I remember melatonin. Ahhhh.... melatonin the small little pills I took in 2002 when I couldn't sleep during our holiday in USA, only to realise I was already 8wks pregnant when we got back to SIN. There are a few bottles of supplements containing melatonin so took pictures and slowly read up on the ingredients back at home.

An article pointed out that there's lack of scientific evidence, and some potentially harmful side effects, melatonin is not recommended for children or teens. 

Sigh.... another potential supplement striked off the list!

4. As I was checking on valerian root, one article mentioned something called ashgawanda. Sounds promising as I know it's ayurvedic. They don't carry that there, only in Taka's outlet. The cashier is an Indian and I asked him if he's heard of it and if it's good. His response is really strange "I've never heard of it." Huh? Can't be my bad pronunciation right?   

A quick search shows it helps in reducing stress and anxiety, stimulates brain power, improves mood and lifts depression amongst others. Somehow this name sounds a little familiar after some time. 
I have Ashgawanda at home! I bought her Goli gummies together with hubby's ACV in Oct'21 or Nov'21, intending to give her for her memory works then. She only took 2 and didn't like it so I kept it aside. However I wished I had checked more on pros and cons before, I read that it's not suitable for below 18. Oh my! And there's another conflicting article :- 
 
So I'm confused can kids take ashgawanda? Or is this company just marketing it (unethically) without due consideration. I'm giving this to my child so I must be extra careful not to harm her.

A clinical results I read, if you might want to know. 

   

I decided to give to Teacher Cheryl instead, otherwise I'd have to throw it away. Fortunately still not past its expiry date, still good for many more months

5. Came across Goli's Dreamy Sleep Gummies, which is not available in Singapore so I have to order from USA. 

6. When one is desperate, one will find all means at the same time. So which works in the end? Abit difficult to tell right? But I was so desperate coz time is running out. Need to help her before her sleeplessness cause her more harm and worst performance.  *dread* 

On 12th Aug while I was still waiting for the delivery of the Goli's Sleep  - I thought since there's ashwaganha, definitely there must be a chinese way of slow healing right? Dropped by the medical hall at Parkway and asked boss. Immediately he introduced Pearl powder. I thought pearl powder is only for the face. Then he mentioned about ya jing - reduce shock and I remember that once I was recommended by the Tai Aun Medical Hall lady for something also for the girls when they were baby. Athena used to take it often. Unfortunately there's nothing that I can brew for her to drink. when I asked him what's the difference between ashgawandha and this, he mentioned that pearl powder is natural and ashgawandhe is ??? I'm clueless whats the chinese word he used. I asked him what that word means and he couldn't explain it. Haha! typical chicken and duck talking. 

A box of 30 pills which can last for a week (4 tablets in a day) sets me back by $50. No harm trying. I started giving her immediately. 
                                       





extracted from : www.healthline.com/health/pearl-powder
Pearl powder was used as an anti-inflammatory, detoxifying agent, and relaxant in Chinese medicine. This could be in part because of the magnesium it contains. Magnesium has an ability to elevate gamma aminobutyric acid ( GABA ) levels, which can help alleviate depression, anxiety, and certain sleep disorders.

extracted from :https://pearl-powder.net/stress-relief juice.htm#:~:text=They%20discovered%20that%20pearl%20can%20increase%20positive%20%22elevated,relieves%20dizziness%2C%20headaches%20and%20irritability%2C%20and%20improves%20sleep.

Pearl Powder contains taurine. Taurine has an effect on the central nervous system. Studies show that pearl can promote a calming effect on the nervous system and ease pain. They discovered that pearl can increase positive "elevated mood" neurotransmitters, thus reduce stress levels, and promote peaceful, positive Internal energy. Similar studies have been reported that when pearl powder is taken internally, relieves dizziness, headaches and irritability, and improves sleep.

7. Now that we’re on the cheena route. That got me thinking - will tuina help? Afterall she used to enjoy child tuina in 育国中医诊疗所 ?But that would means I’m taking time off to do tuina which will eat into her revision time, then she starts panicking. 


AFTER RESEARCH IS DONE ON CONSUMPTION, IT’S TIME TO EXPLORE OLFACTION

Essential oils

First approach are the expensive small bottles I have at home - my essential oils. 

I've done a blend of lavender, cedarwood and vetiver before, so I will diffuse again for now. 


So what is/are alternative/s to Vetiver, since YL’s Vetiver only comes in 5ml bottles. I'd like to finish off some oils at home too. Found out that oils that smell similar to Vetiver are Myrrh, Palo Santo and Sandalwood. 

Looked for more sleep sleep oil blends if the LCV blend doesn't work and found these.   


Will these 2 other essential oil blends help her? Peace and Calming and Highest Potential? If the anxiety is causing her insomnia then perhaps these two might help?    



I remember when they were both taking their major exams in 2014 (P6 and Sec 4), I used the AromaDome and make them lie inside with Valor diffused for 15mins. Perhaps I can do this again? My small bottles of Valor were used up really quickly, but if it will help her this time it might be worth trying. All I need to do is to note down my expenses and charge her next time when she starts working. Haha! 

Links : 

I hope I’ll remember to blog on what finally worked for her and IF it worked on her. 


Friday, August 12, 2022

Mooncake goodies

Really must start noting this down. We can’t seem to remember where we got our mooncakes the previous years. So che-che looked forward to this coz last year I brought her to Taka and she chose what she wants. She bought some mini Thai milk tea snowskin then. 

Fast forward a year later, we forgot the shop name. Looked at every stalls but can't find it. Sigh....  


Bakers Well

These mini mooncakes comes in a box of 6 in order to enjoy a special price. Che-che ordered 2 Hazelnut Crunch Truffle and 1 Champagne Truffle, chose another 3 and passed to mom. 



Goodwood Park Hotel 
Blue Pea lotus mooncake with melon seeds from Goodwood Park Hotel 






Wednesday, August 10, 2022

Brain Health

There’s the argument between a brain and heart, which is the most important organ in the body etc…
Guess just by reading the title you will know that I’m Team Brain. 
Some interesting reading below. 


Quotes from : https://elevays.com/the-top-8-superfoods-for-better-brain-function/

Our brains are essentially the CEO of our entire bodies. It makes the decisions, tells everything else what to do, and troubleshoots when problems arrive. 

When your brain isn’t happy, nothing’s happy. We have to treat it well. Eating these superfoods are one step we can take to boost our brain health, which includes things like:

  • Higher energy
  • Better focus
  • Sharper memory
  • Improved learning
  • Increased cognitive abilities
  • Reduced brain disorder risk
  • Enhanced hormones
  • Balanced moods
  • Boosted overall health
  • And much more




TOP 8 foods for the brain

1- SALMON

Mentioned by 3 of the 4 experts

No surprise we’re starting with salmon – I’m sure everyone has heard what a source of health it really is. Outside of being high in protein, vitamins, and minerals, the real brain power of salmon comes in the form of its fat. Salmon is incredibly high in omega-3 fatty acids, one of the most important substances for your heart, brain, and immune system.

Our bodies are supposed to have a happy balance between omega-3s and omega-6s. Unfortunately, the Western diet greatly jacks up the omega-6s and deplete the omega-3s. This leaves most people with cellular inflammation and other health problems (1).

One of these fishy omega-3s is DHA (docosahexaenoic acid). It is essential for brain health. DHA makes up the membrane of your brain cells, which protects them from injury and inflammation. Membranes are important. They’re like a coat of armor. 

DHA can also improve your mood and alleviate mental health disorders. If you avoid these DHA sources, your brain will never work the way it’s capable of (2).

Yet none of us make DHA on our own; we have to get it from food sources. As you age, your brain’s DHA decreases (one of the reasons old age is often equated with cognitive and memory disorders like Alzheimer’s and reduced brain volume) (3). Our already desperate need for DHA goes up even more. 

The moral to this story: eat more salmon.

The key is to only buy wild-caught Alaskan salmon. If you purchased farmed salmon, you may actually do more harm than good due to increased toxins. Plus, the DHA levels are greatly reduced in the farmed or engineered options (4).

P.S. Don’t like salmon? Some other high-DHA fish include anchovies, sardines, mackerel, and tuna.

2- AVOCADO

Mentioned by 3 of the 4 experts

Avocados have become quite trendy over the years, and thank goodness they have! These green fruits help us absorb nutrients better, aid in stopping inflammation, increase our potassium levels, and supply us with the healthy fat content many of us are missing: monounsaturated fats, which lower cholesterol and reduce heart disease risk (4). 

Plus, they’re filling, creamy, and easy to incorporate into many dishes. Winning all around!

Bringing avocados back to our brain superfood perspective… they are a massive brain booster (5).

  • Avocados improve brain cell membranes, protect brain cells, and improve signaling
  • Avocados help with your brain’s blood supply and oxygenation, which can stop nerve damage and improve the prefrontal cortex
  • Avocados reduce the chance of hypertension-induced stroke (thanks to their ability to lower cholesterol!)
  • Avocados may be able to even reduce the number of seizures someone has

Interestingly enough, avocados are one of the safest conventional fruits around thanks to the thick skin that blocks the pesticides. (4). If you’re struggling to afford 100% organic food, this can be the one to let slide. Slice them up as a simple side. 

3- GRASSFED BUTTER

Mentioned by 3 of the 4 experts

Not that many years ago during our society’s fat-free craze, butter was made out to be the enemy of all things. This mindset was wrong, plain and simple. Butter is good for you, but only the right kind of butter. The key is to use organic butter from grassfed cows. 

Grassfed butter has higher nutrients and fatty acids, including linoleic acid which fights disease, and it’s not genetically modified like toxic margarines or popular GMO butters (6,7).

One of the biggest reasons to eat more (grassfed!) butter is to improve your heart health (ironically, one of the worst ways to harm your heart is to eat margarine – the substance we replaced butter with for so many years!) (8).

Then we get to our brains. Butter can (9,10,11,12):

  • Decrease inflammation
  • Increase your vitamin A consumption (essential for optimal cognitive function)
  • Boost your energy
  • Rebuild the brain

Your best option is to look for raw or unpasteurized organic, grassfed butter. This can be heard to find, but you may have luck at a farmer’s market. If not, pasteurized organic grassfed butter is the next best thing (4). Put it back into your cooking routine – even add some to a bowl of oatmeal or hot cup of superhuman coffee.

4- BERRIES

Mentioned by 3 of the 4 experts

It’s no secret that berries are major superfoods. They’re high in lots of different vitamins, fiber, minerals, and plenty of phytonutrients essential for optimal health (1). 

They are also some of the lowest sugar fruits, so you don’t get that sugar spike after eating them like you could with a high sugar fruit (like a banana).

Now, when we talk about the power of berries, we often focus on their antioxidant benefits and how they improve our immunity. But antioxidants are powerful brain protectors too. Berry antioxidants can:

  • Protect brain cells from damage
  • Prevent brain inflammation
  • Improve cognitive abilities
  • Strengthen coordination and motor control

Plus, their bioactive compounds can actually reduce your risk of brain degeneration (4, 14).

Go nuts with your berries. Strawberries, blueberries, blackberries, etc. – they are all going to provide you with these same brain antioxidant benefits. I add them to my morning smoothie, enjoy a handful as a snack, and incorporate them into salads, healthy desserts, and even savory dinner dishes. 

5- COCONUT

Mentioned by 2 of the 4 experts

Coconut oil is a miracle worker that does just about everything – from fighting heart disease to taking off your eye makeup at the end of a long day (my wife has used it many times for this!). As you can see, literally everything. No wonder it’s considered a superfood!

But we’re not stopping at coconut oil for this list. All sorts of coconut products including kefir, full-fat milk, and butter are a part of this brain boosting superfood group.

Outside of tasting amazing, these coconut products offer such diverse health benefits. They are antimicrobial and insulin stabilizing. They support the thyroid and provide antioxidants. 

Coconut products can serve every single body system you have (14). Of course, this includes your brain. Coconut has been shown to (15):

  • Reduce neurodegeneration
  • Fuel healthy brain function
  • Combat neurotoxins
  • Create ketones as brain fuel

Side note: Science has shown that omega-3s (go back to that fatty fish!) are more effective when taken in conjunction with coconut oil!

The options are endless for incorporating coconut into your diet. I often like to drink coconut milk. Coconut milk and coconut kefir are fabulous in a smoothie, and coconut oil is actually really nice in your coffee.

6- EGGS

Mentioned by 2 of the 4 experts

Eggs are obviously high in protein (the breakfast of bodybuilders!), but they are also high in fat, amino acids, iron, vitamins, carotenoids, and…

…choline, an incredible essential nutrient for the brain! Here’s why it’s great:

Choline produces acetylcholine, a neurotransmitter that improves memory. In fact, research has shown that those with Alzheimer’s disease or other types of memory loss often have acetylcholine deficiencies (2)

Choline is also responsible for boosting mental health and happiness. Talking about superfoods for the brain would not be complete unless we touched on fetal brain development, and the choline egg yolks is once again a big help (15)!

And don’t be so worried about eggs elevating your cholesterol. Recent studies are showing they shouldn’t harm healthy adults. If you have high cholesterol, talk to your doctor about the appropriate use of eggs.

In order to call an egg a superfood, we have to be picky and choosy about the type of egg we use. Make sure you’re buying organic, free-range eggs. By the way, cage-free doesn’t always mean much of anything in the terms of marketing. So go organic/free-range each time (4).

7- NUTS/ALMONDS

Mentioned by 2 of the 4 experts

Almonds are one of the best little snacks you could ask for. Of course, they’re super high in healthy fats, but they are also a great source of protein, fiber, vitamins, calcium, magnesium, and more (2). 

Two almond nutrients in particular – riboflavin and L-carnitine – prevent a decline in cognition and improve neurological activity. 

In fact, eating almonds is associated with a lowered risk for brain disorders that stem from inflammation – dementia being one of them (16). But there are plenty of other fatty nuts that support brain function as well:

  • Walnuts: Reverses some brain deterioration associated with age, as well as increases the brain’s antioxidants and anti-inflammatory capabilities
  • Macadamia Nuts: Lowers blood pressure and helps prevent stroke – both of which can have far-reaching negative brain effects (Going back to fetal development, macadamia nuts have been shown to be good for early brain development and function too!)
  • Pistachios: Prevents brain inflammation and keeps that helpful DHA at the right levels

I’m all about keeping my health and wellness journey simple whenever possible, as simplicity tends to keep me on track. Though there are tons of recipes to include these nuts into creative dishes, a good palmful for a mid-day snack is perfectly fine by me.

8- BONE BROTH

(This is one of our own!)

Our final superfood is not one we sourced from a list, but one we believe in so whole-heartedly we couldn’t leave it out: bone broth.

First off, know bone broth is not stock. This superfood has been simmered long and slow from the actual bones – often marrow bones – of chicken, beef, pork, lamb, etc. This is where all the goodness resides. 

Bone broth is powerful for boosting immunity, improving gut health, detoxifying the body, promoting healthy metabolism, and much more.

And the nutrients we gain from simmering these bones improve learning abilities and sharpen memory (17). Here are a few specific ways bone broth is a brain superfood. I’ve broken it down by two ingredients found in the broth (18,19,20):

  • Glycine: Prevents neurons from dying after a stroke; helps with fetal brain development
  • Chondroitin sulfate: Regenerates the central nervous system

You can reap these benefits from whole food bone broth (which you can make yourself on the stove or in the Vita Clay, which we love!) as well bone broth protein powder. The protein powder choice is a great way to soak up those benefits even when you don’t have a batch of homemade bone broth ready.

GETTING MORE SUPERFOODS FOR THE BRAIN

When you treat your brain well, you’re treating your whole body well. Making great diet choices is actually one of the easiest ways to go about doing that. It’s far less stressful to have half of an avocado and organic egg for breakfast (instead of sugary cereal) than it is to seek medical care for poor brain function or brain disorders.

So let (super)foods be thy (brain) medicine!


Monday, August 8, 2022

Anxiety = Insomnia or Insomnia = Anxiety

Just like the chicken and egg which comes first question, does anxiety cause insomnia or insomnia cause anxiety. 

When lil' one expresses her "I cannot sleep" to me, it made me think which is the cause. I had anxiety when I was a student but it didn't cause any insomnia, infact I could sleep like a pig coz I was body and brain tired. I can't help but think and think, I'm no doctor but I somehow there's a link to it? It's a cycle and I need to step in to help her. 

We all know that sleep is important, which is why I've often instilled in the girls to sleep early to function well in school the next day. They often sleep at 10pm, unlike some other students who sleep at 12am, 1am. (and their results are really good!!) Even during the school holidays, they never go to bed later than 11pm. 

To cut the long story short, I'm glad the internet has helped me answer my question. 

Read this article from Healthline    

Saturday, August 6, 2022

Anxiety






















 

Anxiety

I suppose both my girls have anxiety issues when it comes to exams. Che-che also hates it when she has to go for piano exams, clams up and ..... If only there's no examinations they often tell me. But it's really not possible, there's always a form of test everywhere we go, even for job interviews! 

When lil' one brought up to me that she's nervous during examinations and then she forgets what she's learnt I started to panic myself. OMG! Her finals are approaching soon. Though I usually complain that she talks alot, I'm glad that she shared this with me. Che-che doesn't tell me anything coz she likes to keep everything to herself. Silence doesn't mean everything is well with her, I'm sure she must be anxious often too coz when I tried to calm lil' one, she overheard and commented "you think it's so easy to calm down? To not feel anxious?" Honestly, she isn't wrong. Her mother has anxiety issues too! Even up to this date. There is a reason too why I tend to be over anxious when I have too many things on my plate; there's a reason too why I know I cannot multi-task if I need to do serious studying and being a homemaker. There's a reason too when I set too high a standard on myself and I get anxious when I fail or underperformed in my task.     

When I was a student 3 decades ago 
I used to have tension headaches before exams. The doctor will always give me ponstan and antacid coz panadol won't help me anymore. I perform better in school during normal school work but results shows a slight difference. 
30 years ago when ADHD or mental health is unheard of. If a child don't score, the child gets blamed for being stupid. 

Moving with times
Times have definitely changed, there's a plethora of information out there now for us to understand better; for us to help our children. We hope to make things a little better for our children.      

Yes, supporting mental health is important. Afterall, I wouldn't want healthy children to suddenly have a crack and go berserk. The RGS neighbour is a good example, really sad.  

But we can be contradictory at times too
Unfortunately in this society where people still judge salary earned equals to success, sometimes as parents we also wish our kids can do well for themselves. 
In conclusion, I think we should relocate to a non highly competitive country like Canada or Sweden or Finland or perhaps Tibet.   

Some stuffs I found online, hoping to help my children  
A Japanese method to relax in 5 min 
https://youtu.be/m3-O7gPsQK0

After watching this, your brain will not be the same/Lara Boyd
https://youtu.be/LNHBMFCzznE

Simple trick to stop negative thoughts
https://youtu.be/tmRVz7baXG8

The 5 minute MIND EXERCISE that will Change your life
https://youtu.be/oo5caGP5dAE

Brainwash yourself in 21 days for success
https://youtu.be/Z1SdDubmFII

SOUNDS
Brain healing sounds : healed Millions already
https://youtu.be/CfkhbRCNorg

INSTANT RESULTS : 100% pure alpha brain waves for study, meditation, focus, intelligence
https://youtu.be/fyBuKsmKew4

Alpha waves / improve your memory / Super intelligence
https://youtu.be/GEgSBuYlSoA

Classical music for brain power - Mozart effect
https://youtu.be/7JmprpRIsEY

IQ Increase - improve cognitive processing with brainwave entertainment - intelligence booster 
https://youtu.be/p2qlwAwnMo0

Music for effective studying 
https://youtu.be/RX_Mzfj4N5k

Thursday, August 4, 2022

Thermomix

I’ve been deliberating for a really long time. To be a slave to the family and cook or be a lazy mom and not cook? Technically its’s not that I can’t cook over the stove BUT I hate the cleaning after a fry-out in the kitchen. Not only cleaning but to make sure the whole place don’t smell smoky.  

With half a year gone and one of the excuse for not cooking will not be valid anymore (can’t cook coz tutor/s outside in dining area). It’s time to think if we should still continue with the tapao-ing full of unhealthy stuffs lifestyle. It’s time to think if I should convince the man to be more cautious with his food now. 

I had the ringing thoughts on it again on 21st July and took out the stuffs I knew I wanted to get rid of to replace the Thermomix. These are the 3 (and then later 4) items I got rid off. 

1) Mayer pressure cooker. MMPC 1650. Brand New ! 


Mom said she’ll ask SIL if she wants it, if not she’ll bring it home she can give it to her friend.

2) Bear Food Processor. QSJ-B02Q1 Used once for otah n my keto Nam Prik Pao blend

I guess I don’t need the food processor anymore since Thermomix has an in-built food processor. Passed this to mom. 

3) Philips Viva fruit juicer HR1832/00. Used but very well-maintained coz I wash it immediately after use all the time, so it looks very new. 


I got rid of this coz the girls hate to drink apple juice now. And nobody except me juice drinks, so since nobody takes them out I’ll just get rid of it. I passed this to mom directly coz she said she wanted this citing that the one at home is spoilt. 

4) This last one ice-cream maker was a last min decision. Although I read that texture from Cuisinart maker would be better than Thermomix, I wonder if I’ll ever use the ice cream maker at all. Afterall I got it for almost 3 years and never got a chance to use it. It will be a white elephant. Packaging is still intact. Put it on sale in Carousell n within 2 days I had an interested buyer. 



Not bad right? My initial target was to get rid of 3 items to get back 1 but I got rid of 4. Which also means….. 😬 I am not exactly a try-to-be minimalist as I thought I was (I do clutter my home 😂). 

I just remembered I have another slimmer blender at home, a Tefal BL142A42 Fruit Sensation. I wasn’t willing to clear this coz this is so compact, and having made so many açai in it, we kindda know how much to add in. I used it to blend my pancake and crepes batter. And since it’s a small amount I make each time I feel it’s easier to use this than the huge Thermomix? But who knows I might clear this another time? If we don’t use it within the next 6mths, maybe it’s time to really clear it. Any small space cleared can be a saving grace. Or perhaps I can pass this to che-che when she goes USA next year?

Technically most people will get rid of their Kitchenaid since the Thermomix is also a mixer but I just bought the pasta roller attachment!! And kitchenaid was something that I’ve always wanted so I shall keep it. Until the day maybe I tau huang siao n decide to get rid of it. For now, I’m happy to keep that. 

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Within a week after clearing the items, I finally bit the bullet and made a purchase for a Thermomix on 27th July. Delivery was for 3rd Aug but I requested for 4th Aug (Thu) instead. 

On the same day I made orders for a cheaper slide board, clear cup, anti-vibration pad, screen protector, plastic cover way from Shoppee. They all arrived on 30th Aug. 

Cleared this space on the 2nd Aug 


kept the Tefal Rice Cooker in the cabinet. Moved the Nepresso Coffee machine next to the water filter. 



Glad that I still have a workable preparation space on this side of the kitchen. 

Delivery came at 4.15pm on 4th Aug. Yippee! 

Unboxed Thermomix

Did the screen protector. Pasted a small portion before I realise there was a protector sheet over. So why the heck was I cleaning the protector sheet with alcohol wipe? 🤣

Was suppose to do a setup before delivery but I haven’t. 
Was suppose to set up the Thermomix but I didn’t. 
Just coz I was feeling so hot still in dirty gym wear. Covered it with the plastic covering, will try to set it the next day - I hope! 




Wednesday, August 3, 2022

So disorganized

Fuming mad with lil’ one. 

Whether it’s the crucial exam year or not, she’s always so messy. Stepping into her room is very very traumatising. I can spend 3 hours tidying up her study table and bookshelf, but within 15mins of her back at her desk she’ll mess it up again. 

How many tutors go into her room? Only one - which I think I should be thankful that I only had to make sure her room is presentable once. Imagine if all 6 tutors had to go into her room, 我做死我自己。

She has papers all over the place, her table and the shelf where all the time she just leave it at the top of the magazine holder and then it drops behind the holders and get crumpled. And she starts complaining “so crumpled. I don’t like to see my papers and books crumpled.” Rubbish! 

Where mess come from?
The mess came from the papers tutors gave. Tutors go thru marked papers. Once it’s finished then file it up lah! Never! Then paper here n there. 
Later tutor come and ask where is last week work? Then she has problem finding it when she goes back to her room. After tuition, she’ll hear nagging from me again and she’ll look for it to find out it’s on her table with the pile of worksheets. Bloody hell! Damn fed up. 

Mess also comes from school. She doesn’t file her papers that often. 

How difficult can that be? If every time she files it up, she don’t have to spend half a day filing up the accumulated mess. Always reiterate to her Organized = mess free space = brain also clear. 
I also hate it when she don’t write date on her papers. I can’t even help her file when I want to do it, when I asked her when was she given this piece of work. “I dunno..” OMG! Really just feel like smacking her. 

I should not see ; no scoldings from me right? 

How come I’m so organized but can have two disorganized kids ?? Yup! Che-che was also messy before. I’m just thankful that she has no hard copies of Uni academic materials. Can’t wait for next year, I think lil’ one will have less papers in school right?