Tuesday, July 28, 2026

Power of music

Started the day, cleaning the house as usual. Not sure how jazz can motivate me to work but I just gotta grind through it. Everyday sucks coz …. How I wish I’m a good for nothing, don’t work don’t do housework don’t meddle with kids don’t care the family. 😂 #physical&mentalexhaustion#



Last minute change and I didn’t have to bring mom for her check up. So decided to clear the laundry today. Towels day! Ironing day! 


Music while ironing. I haven’t been watching Nami vlogs lately, somehow it always depends on what I feel like doing while ironing. Sometimes just watch a drama or movie on Netflix. 

Ironing in lil’ one’s room coz she’s out while che-che is WFH today. Ideally I hide in che-che’s room to iron with the aircon on. If the timing happens when hubby is taking his afternoon nap then I’ll bring the ironing board to our room and turn on the aircon. Just installed new aircons in the girls’ rooms so it’s nice cold. 

On This Day - (28th July) #Reminders from FB#

28th July 2025

Simple dinner for the girls.



Curry without anything inside. Yup! That fussy.

Lil' one's will be served later without curry coz she don't like curry and she don't like pork but I don't care, I need

to finish the pork loin. 一个要鸡肉、一个要猪肉=真麻烦



Which means I had to portion out their curry and continue cooking my eggplant in the pot.

My curry is more than my rice 🤣, I'm full from eating the onion, carrot, potato and eggplant.

My meal served from pot coz I didn't want to wash any more crockeries.

#vegetariancurry#




28th July 2025

Tomorrow's meal done for the girls 🤭 with all the unhealthy stuffs.

Now I need to climb and reach in the cabinet for the rice cooker to keep the rice constantly warm. #whenthekitchenissmall#





28th July 2025

Slaving in the kitchen. Getting ready for girls' dinner when I haven't even had my breakfast or lunch yet!

And since kitchen will be dirty, I might as well prepare some fried rice for tomorrow - lunch or dinner I dunno coz I'm often informed last minute "I'm WFH" 🫤




Yippee! Finished all the green apples and starfruits


Music while I slave

Yes! Will finish the last carrot for the curry tonight. But now l'a be left with 2 potatoes after this!! Sigh....



28th July 2025

I begin the start of the week, although every day of the week is the same to me, with music amplified in house. I like to have music when I'm cleaning the house but a lot of times inhibited with the family either needing to WFH or HBL.

My work is at home 😩 so I need to AWFH (always work from home)



Scrolling through my saved albums and artists. How and when did I have HSJ? Haha!



28th July 2023

So fast! All kalang kabok.

1st pic - I do what I do best. Be the scary intimidating mom 🤣

3rd pic - my giraffe horn didn't stand up and I was adjusting it, before I know it 📸




28th July 2021

A friend posted this up in her FB, we were either in Sec 1 or 2.

che-che 长得像我吗?

#mygoodnessilooksonerdy# #familyoftrueblueijgirls# #proud2Bkcians#





28th July 2021

All over and done with. Yay!

Except for fever that lil' one and I had for the last 💉, and tiredness we all experienced the next day, we are all well. No arm sore except only on the day of jab itself.

Other than that, we're all awaiting for vaccine to "take effect" 😬

#neversleptforlonghoursindaytime# #thankstohubbywhohelpedtopickliloneupfromschool soicanrest#

#anotherpanadollaternsleepearlytonight# #ndtorechargeforanotherbusydaychauffeuringtmrw#

Nofightdoforoneweek#




28th July 2016

Some time back, che che said a classmate brought melted marshmallow with Pebbles and shared with the class. That it's nice and asked me to do it one day.

I misinterpreted the whole thing n mine looked like this. She saw, slapped her forehead n smiled. It's nothing like what her friend did.

Hee! It's ok, I'm only going to do 6. And she gotta eat it for breakfast whether she likes it or not!

Hopefully next round can do better.




28th July 2016

Must sneak a pic. Then she spotted me.

#pianoonsilent#



28th July 2016

Champion for Division 2B : Good Hope School

Symphonic Band.

KC Band 3rd place. Ehh...to console myself, 1st in local schools for Division 2B.

Girls worked hard. Parents have to do extra chauffeuring on weekends. Tiring month!




28th July 2016

Looks delicious. Can look but cannot bake this coz nobody fancies green tea except me.




28th July 2016

Haven't done this for the longest time.

Reading & listening to classical music and a drink from Mcs.

If only I can prop my feet up on the chair across me.




28th July 2009


feels like baking but ... the kids are keeping me so occupied.

Sunday, July 26, 2026

Exhausted week

I’ve grown accustomed to staying at home as much as I can that being out of the house 3x this week totally exhausted me 🤣🤣. I am not able to find the extra day to go to our gym, I need to take care of myself also. 

Knowing that I’ll be out three consecutive days, I worked like shit on Wednesday covering those additional jobs that were to be done on all Thursdays, Fridays and of course Wednesdays all into one day. Was totally flat out, that I slept much earlier than usual & even had a funny dream.


23rd (Thu)
Skipped Fight-Do (second time consecutively coz last week I had to bring lil’ one for her test). I had to accommodate to J’s timing coz she’s working. We met in the morning before her appointment. The last time I met or rather I bumped into her was in 2019 when we both signed up for the same cute mantou making class. We signed up for a class together in 2020 but they had to cancel it during Covid, so …… 
On and off we still message each other. Thank goodness WhatsApp is free so we can spam as many messages as we want without limitations. 


Nevertheless we had a great 3.5hours catching up. A photo for momento, the staff was rushing us out of the cafe 😂 that we didn’t get a chance to take pictures inside. 

Returned home to pick lil’ one up to collect her new passport. Packed dinner and headed home. Was tired to be out for only 5 hours or less. Old body 🤭



24th (Fri) 

This meeting was planned sometime in mid June. Postponed with date then it became from table of three to four. Yay! 

When you put a bunch of women in their 50s together, the voice gets even louder 🤣. S and MH were standing at one side choosing the kuehs while E and I were on the other side choosing cakes. They were so loud, louder than us 😂. As it is I was trying hard to hear E, who has a softer voice, I had to crane my neck towards her to hear her. When the staff was repeating our orders the three of them were behind me talking away so loudly 🤣. Wah! I had to silence them 😅. Can’t blame us lah! Coz we haven’t seen each other for quite some time, if I wasn’t standing in the front I would be one of the noisy old ladies. 
We spent a good 4 hours and proceeded to dinner and continued all the way until 9.19pm! We met at 2.30pm. Maybe the next one we should go to someone’s house, can stay as long without anyone chasing us out of restaurant or cafe. 

One pic without the hands blocking 😬

they say there’s a trend to do this. Ok lor! If you say so.

E, who turned a year older just 4 days ago (20th). Our initial date of meeting. No birthday song but just a cake for her. 
Happy Belated Birthday, E! 

We were batchgirls in SQ. S and I were LSS batchgirls as well! We were young and fresh, now all old and naggy 🤣. E is the only lady still flying. 
I last met E last June to pass her things (was on her flight in 2024) after I got back from my solo trip. Last met MH on 19th June. Last met S in Mar 2023 where a few of us including MH managed to do a reunion. 

I’d love to gather with more of my batchmates but it’s always much easier to meet up with a small group where liasing on an agreed date is so much easier. Our next group outing will be to JB with a date already set. So exciting! My first overseas / over the causeway trip with friends. 

Went home with my heart full. Felt my weight lighter coz they made my
 lighter in those few hours. 

** it’s not that I don’t like to meet up with my friends. I do make an attempt to meet up but I always space out the meetings. I don’t go meeting my friends every week or every month also lah! It’s just that it’s so coincidental that this week alone I meet on two days.



25th (Sat)
Wah…..Woke up from another weird dream. 
Evening time to  SNYCO concert. Will post a separate post on this. 

Reached home at 10+ and was busy with laundry. I don’t even feel like ironing clothes tomorrow, I don’t feel like doing anything after the sinseh visit. I hope he gives the go ahead and give us 2 weeks of medication so I only need to bring her to the clinic every fortnight.

Sigh ….it’s not over 26th (Sun) 
Another 七早八早 must force myself to wake up super early. I’ve been bringing lil’ one to TCM sinseh for her tonsilitis problem EVERY SUNDAY. And it’s so tiring


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What an exhausting week. I wish …… 
Oh no! I realised it’s going to be another exhausting week next week as well. 我的天啊‼️I can’t even find extra time to go to the gym! Next week : - 1) have to bring mom to see the doctor alone, I think that will be exhausting for me if there’s no direct carpark. Coz I’m alone, will need to drop her somewhere and plonk her in the wheelchair then I drive to park; then I walk back to her. After doc appt the reversal. If it’s shaded still not too bad, if it’s under the hot sun☀️..🥵 2) have to go for my Fight-Do class. 3) dental appointments for the 3 females. 4) TCM sinseh if he still need to see her weekly

Following week (3rd - 9th Aug week) another 3 days out! Wah lau eh…. I’m so bloody exhausted leh! When I’m out of the house means I can’t do certain housework then I have to cram the work on affected days into the days I’m in + cooking.  And I’m also tired coz now I have additional work to do, have to change che-che’s bedsheets twice a week instead of once a week coz of her eczema problem, have to be more hardworking to clean the dust from her room. And still gotta cook. I don’t have a helper leh! And if the educational psychologist finishes her report I’m suppose to meet her this week to hear what she has the say, I also need the report asap to submit to school. Things that will keep me on my toes this week are :- 1) mom’s doc appt. 2) hubby’s doc appt. 3) Fight-Do. 4) TCM sinseh if he still need to see her weekly

And when is che-che’s dermatologist appt? Sigh……or should I skip Fight-Do next few weeks? End up I die earlier coz I’m so tired being out of house and doing all the houseworks and I don’t get to exercise my body. 

On This Day - (26th July) #Reminders from FB#

26th July 2025

Just coz I needed to use up the pandan leaves.
Peach gum dessert again 😄




26th July 2025

Flower for the home. Hydrangea

Coz I'm missing Japan 🤣





26th July 2025

Girls all time fav.

Aw...! miss Japan. I want to go back!!



Che-che loves her ramen


Lil’ one loves her soba

Then throwback to the time I went to a place where they serve the freshest soba with all the good water they so claimed. Recorded with their permission, only in restaurants they serve nice nice. Aricia, be thankful that your mummy didn't serve your soba from the pot.



So cute this boy. Saw me filming then flip the container for me


With the bestest soba. I'm not a soba fan but this is really very very nice. Lil' one will love this for sure.

Needless to say, I bought a few packs of fresher soba home for her.

I love this small town I went to. Really quiet, friendly people.


After that need to pour the sobayu into the tsuyu to drink. But I couldn't drink all coz I had greedily ordered a soba ice-cream too 😂.

With the fresh soba at home, I was able to introduce her sobayu. The usual packed dried soba we buy doesn't have any nutrients coming out in the water.



26th July 2025

jiang xi dong until I buy back my parfume. Should I bubble wrap this?😂




26th July 2025

I know this is my fav perfume but it's too overpowering inside the toilet 🤣.  Let's see how many days will the smell linger inside here. I even scrubbed the floor with Dettol, I can't smell Dettol. 


26th July 2021

The contractual agreement that is one sided.

To che-che's whims n fancies.

But then they swooped toys between them prior, lil' one's Duffy is on che-che's bed, che-che claimed the small giraffe toy ehh...where did it go?) was hers not lil' one and what else?!

#checheisthebigboss#



Footnote written in 2022 : 

"with new terms whenever Athena feels like it."

🤣🤣🤣

Such a bully!



26th July 2021


As long as you don't nip off my flowers can

J. I'm watching 👀 you birdy.




26th July 2014

A gift for daddy..






26th July 2014

She bugged che-che to buy her a present 2 months in advance. And she chose a loom set. (Huh? Hv the kit already..)

She slowly picked up looming. Put one rubber band, talk 5 sentences, loop one time, talk again, loop the other side, talk I-lost-count-number-of-sentences.

Finish one, show off and talk again. Haiz! At the rate she's going she talks more than she looms. My eyeballs just roll when she goes about doing that.

Her first loom after xxx minutes. Oops! My eyeballs dropped from eye socket liao!





26th July 2013

Bumped into Che-Che's good friend's mom in the morning. Asked if her dau is looking forward to tmrw's NE Show. Her reply is "no, but it seems like she's looking forward to snacking there." Haha! My girl also made me buy snacks, looks like a few of them are buying to share. Hmm.... Things they'll do together.




26th July 2013


Y do kids like to take off their shoes or slippers while eating? I had always thought it was only my girls bad habit. Now I realized majority of kids do that



26th July 2010 

Bakes

Opera slice cake class on 25th July. Time away from the kids.



Chef dismantling my cake, which was a little hard coz' my one is very tall (if only I'm tall too!). Packed and ... can't wait to show it to the kids. Just nice, today's 25th - can celebrate che-che turning 7 yrs 8 mths ( we haven't done this for quite some time already).



My uneven and superbly thick cake - coz' I'm so greedy

I put alot of buttercreaM and chocolate ganache.

Hahaha! Actually I'm still not that good in coating buttercream.

My cake tak balance - got white got brown. Haha!



Apparently the cake was slanted during the transportation home. Sigh…... otherwise the cake is shiok-li-cious!!

(greedy lor! put so much ganache until can slip - hahaha! Actually put on carseat so slanted lah!)





26th July 2010

22nd July 2010’s lunch