Monday, May 13, 2024

Done! Packed!

12th May (Sunday)

Finally felt the urgency to get down into action.  

Flying solo
This trip, for the first time ever since 2002, I'm flying solo and I'm a little excited. Quite silly right? When the girls were younger I had to take care of them onboard, change diapers, comb their hair, clean up the ketchup stain on their clothes etc.. BUT I must admit they were really good travellers. As they grew older and in recent years I don't have to take care of them onboard, they started fiddling on their own the IFE at a young age. And although the IFE has improved over the years, kids are really fast learners so I don't have to worry about them.  

I cannot say it's a solo holiday coz technically I'll be with che-che. I've said for the longest time I need a solo trip to rejuvenate; to go back to my younger carefree days where I can walk fast or slow; stop to take a break whenever I want; stop to take pictures of ants crawling birds flying; eat on the go and not worried if my companion is hungry. 


Things I had to pack in
Cannot go empty handed to her graduation. This bouquet which I hope will still be in good condition and her card. 



My drawing is so ugly. Now you know who the girls with their "untalented drawing" took after. The balloons were rescued drawing in an odd place. I wanted to do a calligraphy of her name but the brush was spoilt, which obviously I didn't check, and the "A" turned out horrible. I decided to draw balloons instead. Whatever she wants to interpret why the balloons on the floor I'll leave it to her. Haha!     

Hmm.... Cannot forget this passport. So funny leh... we are helping lil' one to collect the stamps. 

Bought 2 huge packs of Irvins salted egg chips for Sujin. Che-che said she likes it 

Luggage in luggage. First time doing this kind of packing as never believed in overpacking. But I have no choice this time as che-che needs to spread out the weight of the items. Worst come to worst, then get one more luggage in the last station. The 3 of them have their own luggage and I'm always tompang-ing theirs.  

Che-che has AIRTAG 1 with her and for the weirdest reason on 21st March I tried syncing my AIRTAG 2 but couldn't. This time round I learnt that by removing and putting the battery at least 4 times will help to reset it. I did 5 times! It worked!   

Cannot forget Airtags. Because of the additional bag, I had to bring out another 1 as shown in this picture (and then later another 1 more without pulling out the battery tag - for standby purposes).
Orange colour is AIRTAG 3
Never ever leave home without Airtags 



Final packing items

1. One dress for graduation
2. THilfiger dress for sightseeing and days when I need to do laundry. Cannot wear jeans mah... so will have to wear  a dress for that purpose
3. 5 tops 
4. Flat shoe to match the dress for graduation. I'm not packing high heels for sure, ah-nia canot walk far with heels now. And this shoe can be used when it's raining there. Yup! After checking the weather forecast, have to say that I'm so super suay that the rain follows me wherever I go. Duh! It's the first time I pack additional shoes for my holiday, not so hiao to do a fashion show usually but after last July's Japan trip... I kindda learnt my lesson.   
5. Her heels coz after constant nagging in Jan to bring over, she didn't. 
6. Dove bodywash in a small container for self. I hate to use hotels' supplies except for Japan's hotel supplies. 
7. Brought more vacumn bags just incase she needs them. 
8. Disposable slippers.   


Other than that, I don't have much things to bring over as she has them with her. No need for washing clothes scrub or powder or laundry pods as she still has them. No need to pack First Aid Kit. No need to pack any facial wash, we'll finish up the last bit of Kiehls Calendula facial wash there and then throw. Argh! One container / one stamp less to recycle / collect in Kiehls. I think since the time she was there, she probably threw another 2 more Kiehls containers?   
I feel this packing is much much easier. Usually I feel that I'm bringing things from various spots in the house into the luggage bag when I pack and then put them back after I return. Unlike flying days where my toiletry bag, the empty organization packing cubes, FAKit, misc bag is always inside the luggage bag. All I needed to do was to pack clothes and remove them once back.      


What I wanted to bring and did I bring?
I used to bring cabin bag onboard or a duffel bag with the winter topcoats, thermal and sweater kept inside. And then start wearing the coat before disembarking. At the luggage collection area while the man collects the luggages, I bring the girls to the toilet and we make a change to the winter wear. Once we're done, he goes in and we take care of the bags before clearing customs. But for the last 6 years I stopped this practice, I only go onboard with my messenger bag and put my toothbrush, sample size facial wash inside. It's a huge risk to take, by right we should have at least one set of clothes on hand with us incase our luggages get lost in transit.    

Cabin bag :   This time initially was thinking if I should use my LV cabin bag (It's been years since 2002 since I used it. Has the leather strap disintergrated?) onboard as I'll be changing my jeans to my sports leggings to be comfortable for the 19hrs flight. I needed to pack quite a few items but not that alot to fill up the cabin bag. Using the lightweight haversack instead. Since it's a super long flight, I need my hydrating facial mask as well. The dry air is going to suck up the water on my face. If only the air can suck up my fats. 
Packed leggings, Columbia jacket and LV scarf into my last compressed packing capsule. I passed all but the smallest one to che-che last year.   

Burberry messenger bag : Is always my to-go travel bag. But this trip I will be in a dress for her graduation and it doesn't match so decided to use this LV bag after removing the sling strap. All just for one day of vanity. It's smaller than my LV bucket bag for sure but at least this is zipped up - pickpocket safe. Anyway, strangely I tried with just my passport, my Totoro thermos flask and an empty space for the small umbrella + lipstick. I've never liked to bring expensive stuffs overseas so this is really an exception. 


Facial mask : Usually on our US long haul flights, I'll bring my toothbrush + sample size facial wash + sample size face cream. But this flight is going to be additional 3+hrs longer, I need my facial mask. There's no way I'm going to put a sheet mask on my face and scare the hell out of passengers around me so I'm going with my trusty Kiehls Ultra Facial Overnight Hydrating Masque with 10.5% squalene. I swear by this masque for our winter holidays. Put on face and I shall sleep with it then. It's not that obvious,really! 

What I will not pack 
Although I love my Airpod pro, I will never use it onboard. I have the Airfly pro adapter but was hesistant in using after one time. I sleep alot onboard, I can be watching a movie and suddenly doze off and I'm so afraid of losing my ear piece. True enough, I've heard of many cases where passengers dropped theirs into the deep deep abyss out of reach. No thank you but although I hate the stupid wire dangling and tripping me when I want to move around, I'll endure with the inconvenience. 


New purchases 
Normally I don’t buy new things just for holidays but I made an exception this time round, a little pampering for myself since I hardly spend anything on self.  

Bought these as there’s no towel in che-che’s place where I’ll be staying for 3 nights. I don’t think she has any spare? Wait! Did I even pack towels for her to use and then discard before returning home? Is this an impulse buy? Not sure lor…. I’ve been wanting to get this after our hilarious Munich hostel incident. I’ve also thought that it’ll be good to have this if I have the chance to do a solo travel. A big IF, coz I like the simplicity of staying in hostels and they probably don’t provide towels. 

I came across a long sleeve top from this brand COS, but I couldn’t find it in the shop here. On second thoughts, I think I should have shopped for it during the Autumn/Winter season. 
Found this instead. Parted with a hefty S$175, I’ve never spent so much on a top before 😂. It comes in this colour and black, but I hate to wear everything black tho black is an easy colour to match. Looks like I’m mourning like that - black top, black leggings, black shoes, black hair, black Columbia jacket. The only saving grace is my red lipstick and almost red nail polish. 



好了!All packed and ready to rock n roll 

Weight of the luggage is 13.15kg. Light? 

All ready for Tuesday 



13th May (Monday)

Che-che messaged to ask how many slippers I'm bringing. I brought 2 but she asked me to bring 3. In the end decided to pack another 2 more. They're flat anyway. 
Then she asked if I checked the weather. Uhhh...... her mother also check sunrise, sunset, asteroids for all our holidays, will I not check on weather? Said it might be cold for me, her friend's parents came in 3 layers. I packed my Columbia jacket for this reason, I love this jacket coz it's not thick at all but it does keep me warm. However to be safe, I threw in my red thin merino wool sweater. I think I won't feel as cold as her friend's parents right? I have so much blubber around me, can keep me warm. 
I brought another 2 more empty containers for her to fill up her remaining Cetaphil to bring home. 
Dunno what's the luggage weight now but it shouldn't be more than 13.5kg.       


Phone matters
Transferred and deleted as many misc. photos in the phone as I can. Too tired to continue, so from 29000++ photos I'm left with 24833 photos. Massive and quick iMovies done (with lots of sacrifices made by cutting down on certain cleaning around the house. Most days just did a vacumn and mop and quick surface cleaning. How clean? I dunno.. just don't care anymore). Cleared almost 5K of photos and then it will be replaced with 6K or maybe more photos after that. Haha! 


Okay. Blog done and it's time to clear whatever I can around the house.      

Saturday, May 11, 2024

so cool …

I like this luggage where everything can be kept inside. 

But ….. I don’t even bring everything out from my luggage usually 🤭 except for my toiletry bag.  




Thursday, May 9, 2024

The 麻烦 girl’s lunch for school in Y2T2

2nd April (Tue)

I forgot to buy bread for her on Monday. 😅 After she left the house then I remembered. Forgetful mom. But thankfully she didn’t have PE this week and said the queue was short in canteen, so she managed to buy her lunch on school. 


3rd April (Wed)

School starts at 9am this term and I need to leave house at 8.15 - 8.20am. Soaked the grinded rice the night before. Decided to cook porridge instead of rice as hubby has something on in office in the night so I won’t be cooking dinner. Yay! I can’t possibly cook less than a bowl of rice in Ms Thermie. 
It’s the lazy, her fav CP’s teriyaki chicken for the dish. I can’t do a cookout in the mornings coz I’m lazy; I’m tired and really makes a difference when I need to send her to school after cooking. I’m just trying to make my life a little easier for myself. If she dares to complain about the lunch I prepare, then she can jolly well just join the long queue for food during lunch. 

Into the trusty 2-container thermos flask. Food are kept warm.
 
Sigh….. thinking about tomorrow’s lunch. School starts at 8am which means I need to leave house at 7am. Wah…..so early …. I’m only 1/4 awake. 


4th April (Thursday)

Packed Mee Rebus for her


8th April (Monday)
A switch in this week’s timetable. They will go back to school on Monday and HBL on Tuesday, mainly so for the Malay students, who needs to prep for Raya. 
Lunch cooked the night before 

What else? 🤣 always the same boring food

11th Apr (Thursday)

Happy that I only had to 伤脑经 once this week, being HBL on Tuesday and a PH on Wednesday. Yay! The next two PHs (Labour Day and Vesak Day) also falls on a Wednesday. One day less to think about prepping lunch for the troublesome nottie girl. 

Cooked it at 10+pm, something easy and non messy. 
Porky porridge with scallops and egg. She loves my porridge. One of the four dishes that she loves from her lousy chef mom. 


and into the slow cooker to keep it warm. I put in more water coz I’m afraid it’ll dry out the next day, 9hrs later


16th April (Tuesday)
 
Forgot to buy bread. Coincidentally I prepared 4 onsen eggs the day before so packed 2 for her to bring to school



 17th April (Wednesday)

Steamed the extra rice for her and heated some satay chicken. No photos as I was packing in a hurry and went back to nap for another hour. I only remembered when I woke up 😂.


18th April (Thursday) 

Cooked this the night before and into the slow cooker to keep it warm. Tweaked the fried bee tai mak recipe for this fried yellow noodles. (Only added garlic + chaipoh + 3 different sauces they asked for)


The next morning ….



23rd April (Tuesday)

Bestie W is feeding my girl. Her "I'm suddenly craving for Mister Donut" 


24th April (Wednesday)

On MC so no need to pack her anything



25th April (Thursday) 

After dinner last night, used the extra rice to do fried rice in Ms Thermie. But failure! Really cannot use Thermomix to do fried rice. It's my second attempt but my rice turned soggy again even though I used reverse mode. How can the fishcake chop up even more with reverse mode?? Sigh…. In the end I added water and sesame oil + light soya sauce to the Haochi flavoured fried rice. 什么来的! 🤞her porridge will taste good



2nd May (Thursday)

Packed from the hawker. Basil chicken no chilli 


7th May (Tuesday)

Packed bread, with Nutella spread for her. Trying to pack in the paper thingy instead of putting them into her food container. Forgot to take pic


8th May (Wednesday)

Had the intention of giving her rice n basil chicken (my style) but couldn’t find mince chicken in NTUC. But it can also be difficult to cook rice just for her. Like what 80g in the Thermomix? And then gotta wash the whole appliance just for that? 
Finally decided that porridge is always the easiest. As she has an hour earlier start (8am) just for this week, it's best to have it cooked the night before (Tuesday).

Mince pork + scallop + sole fish powder for the umami flavour + egg


9th May (Thursday)
Turns out last minute change of plans when lil’ one said there’s Thankful Day in Genki yesterday, so went there for early dinner instead n didn’t cook dinner. I was struggling to think if I should cook her spaghetti the day before or wake up at 5am to cook for her? But luckily when I got home hubby said he needed rice so … cooked for him and kept extras for lil’ one’s lunch today. 
Since I had no dishes, I can only use the trusty won’t go wrong teriyaki chicken. 


Teriyaki chicken + ちゅかクラゲ +  jasmine rice. If only I cooked Jap rice the day before, it'll be a complete jipun meal in a jipun bento box.  



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With that, this sums up this blog post. Last meal I cook for her this term, I think. When I’m on holiday, she can gao-dim herself











Wednesday, May 8, 2024

Term 2 : Home cooked meals - mainly dinner 😬

3rd April (Wednesday)

Didn’t cook today as the man is busy earning money and bonus for his wife. Anyway it’s first Wed of the month 




4th April (Thursday)

Fishball noodle soup. Fishball n noodles cut for baby Aricia to eat in the car. 


Then I realised I forgot about my own dinner! 🤦🏻‍♀️ 


24th Apr ( Wed)




Didn’t measure so all eyeball. 

Marinating chicken in the "blended in Thermomix and had teeny sticks of lemongrass" 😄 marinade. Maybe I should replace the fresh lemongrass with lemongrass powder the next time I attempt this again. Or maybe I should look for other recipes




Left is pandan wrapped and fried, right side is grilled / baked in oven



Hassle free cooking. Steaming tofu while cooking rice. 




Extra lemongrass n pandan n not sure when will cook again so just boiled drink for self. No sugar or sweetener added. 



8th May (Wednesday)

Was suppose to cook dinner and clear out the some things in the fridge before I leave, but lil' one told me that she received the Members' Thankful Day message in school. They didn't have it last Wednesday as it was a PH. 
No cooking means more likely I won't be cooking anymore this term. By the time I returned from US, she'll have 1-2 weeks of break before she starts her internship. 


Tuesday, May 7, 2024

Crochet flowers

Did a little errand after my lash appointment. A florist is just opposite Browhaus and I bought this for big girl. 

In the shop, a guy was also buying flower and toy for his female friend. The bouquet is really beautiful but I can only buy this. 

I had a short convo with the florist whom I do 打招呼 when I walked past last time. Florist ask me who’s the graduand -  “overseas where? Melbourne?” Huh? So many Singaporeans go there to study?  I said “no USA”. Shocked and exclaimed “so far!” Aiyah! Even if can bring into USA, you think I so crazy to buy from here to bring over meh? I can’t even tahan 18-19hrs onboard, the flowers also ….stressz. She then commented that there were customers who bought flowers from Singapore to go Australia. Siao ah! Cannot bring flowers into Oz at all. And where did the pax expect to put it? Hope he/she not so siao to put in overhead compartment coz Australian flights are always full load! Did the passenger expect the crew to help you put in chiller? (Hee….actually I do ask the crew to help me put my macarons n eclairs in the chiller. I also bribed them with some goodies too!) 

I was then reminded that a LSS received flowers from her admirer or boyfriend or new boyfriend whatever.. somebody trying to impress her at the airport before our flight departed. We saw the flowers and envy but all of us let out with a “so wasted! U can only admire onboard.” 

I know it’s crazy to bring there and bring back when we would need any possible space in luggage. She will surely niam niam. 反正我做这样那样也不行.  I wanted to just leave at home but ….her hands will be so empty when take photo lor! She want to niam let mini-mother niam me.

Not cheap also k! The girl cost $20. Two flowers at $18 each. Total damage = 56 + 5 (card) = $61

I suppose if there’s fresh flowers I can buy there but ….. not sure if they’re like in Singapore like that can buy it in reception area. It’s held in some huge arena and what if the sale is held in another place. Their building there is so far apart..I think I’ll be tired walking from one place to another. Also not convenient lah! We’ll be travelling and definitely have to discard it before returning.


Ps. Lil one saw this and asked why I didn’t buy it for her then. Commented that this is so much better than the one I bought for her. Sigh…I get the hint.


Tulips #2

Tulipmania 2024 will end on 26th May so I will not have any chance to see it anymore. As I had a 不三不四、不知道怎么安排时间 coz had to go lash lift (Browhaus) and cannot go tuina today + in same area. 

Really good that I'm alone so I can chop chop quick quick hop in.  




































Will I have the time to drop by later this week or next Monday? But I really hope the tulips can wait for me in Chicago's Botanical Gardens.